dependency

Will it save you? By leaning on someone, can you navigate problems easier? Almost certainly. By learning to do so on your own, by being broken to rebuild yourself stronger and wiser each time, would this not be wise? But if you have to do so continuously, then this defeats the purpose of being stronger. Or is it just for that one moment, that one triumph, where we finally hold our own, where we face down the fear, that we destroy ourselves continuously.

Is that one moment so sweet in victory that we feel it worth it to suffer to achieve such a pure frame of mind for such a short time, before failing on promises to continue to hold strong, and fall back into our own cycles of self destruction?

You tell me.